IF YOUR CHILD IS LYING, IT MEANS YOU OVERREACTED TO THE MISTAKES IN THE PAST….

Have your kids ever looked you straight in the eye and lied?

So what kind of negative emotions come into your mind then??

A sense of betrayal… How could my little pumpkin lie to me when he/she even doesn’t know the spelling of a lie too?

 Insecurities… What am I doing wrong that my baby feels the need to lie?

 Worry… Will she/he ever stop lying? Will we ever have a trusting relationship?

 Fear… What if my kid gets in real trouble someday and lies to me about it and I can’t help him/her?

And on and on our mind races.

Now just think & look back when you have yelled on the top of your voice on him/her and gave him the punishment for making any mistake. Just because your baby told the truth last time what he/she actually did (whatever the mistake or circumstances or situations) & you have OVERREACTED on that, so now just be ready to face all the negative emotions described above every time. Because you have made him/her learn that truth always lead to punishment or yelling or anger. And he/she has also learned that never to say truth in lifetime from your OVERREACTING....Read more